Many of the people surfing this site and other bdsm lifestyle related sites have NO CLUE what the lifestyle is really about. Being a fetishist myself at one point I remember when my interest in the bdsm and fetish scene was in its infancy, and being a little lost with in the immensity of the genre. Wikipedia has a good definition entry i suggest you take a look at it, but heres a snippet:
BDSM is an erotic preference and a form of sexual expression involving the consensual use of restraint, intense sensory stimulation, and fantasy power role-play. The compound acronym BDSM is derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D or B/D), dominance and submission (D&S or D/s), and sadism and masochism (S&M or S/M). BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures.
... Typically participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants.Those participants who are recipients of the activities, or who are controlled by their partners are typically known as bottoms or submissives. Individuals who alternate between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles — whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship — are known as switches.Wiki
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